When we start loving someone and fall in love there are things that we experience that we have never before. For all of us, that think love is all great and happy feeling and that is nothing bad about Love and it’s all good when you are in love. Let me tell you something, and that is what you are imagining. Love is not always sunshine and roses. It’s a great experience but comes with hard times if you think that your love life will be always happy nope that can’t be. So let me tell you basics 10 hard truth about love that you know after you come in relationships.

Romance will fade away: When we talk about love there’s this sweet feeling, getting butterflies in your stomach kissing and holding each other all the time. Always feeling happy and excited talking about a lot of things together and making each other feel special by just talking and being there. Well let me tell you it’s nothing but a big lie after a while it will all go and if you are not ready to accept that reality, you will end up breaking up with a person who maybe was the destined one for you.

Every relationship is different: Make sure you don’t compare your relationship with any other couples. They won’t have what you have and you won’t have what they have. It’s basic things you can’t get everything and if you start comparing you will always find faults in your relationship and will totally ignore the good things about yours. Focus on your relationship and be happy in that enjoy the things you can do.

There will be days when we regret being in relationships: When you are in a relationship you will be good and enjoying every moment and be happy like nothing is wrong with you. But suddenly after a period of time, you will start having arguments and fights. This will happen so often sometimes you will feel you shouldn’t have come in a relationship.

We think about our partner’s weakness more often: After a while when you are in a relationship you started to think about the weakness of your partner. The bad habits they have and they do. This can cause a doubt in your mind that you have to deal with. Just keep in mind even superman has his weakness no one comes without S weakness and no one is perfect.

We often blame relationships for our mistakes: We always after a period of time blames our partner whenever we fight. We say it’s because you are like this, it’s because you don’t do this you don’t give me time and etc. Which we use for trying to comfort ourselves that it’s their fault. It is not true better to just accept your mistake and make sure what you need to do to make it better.

We hide our weaknesses and flaws things from our partner: When we in a relationship that we start to have these thoughts. What will happen if my partner knows about my flaws will he leave me? Or will he use them later for hurting me and there are many thoughts? But if you and your partner really love each other they will just make your relationship better by sharing each other’s flaws.

Ignoring things is not always a good option: Most of the time people in relationships try to ignore things and make sure they don’t get fight and they run from the truth. They hide and ignore some topics that they don’t want their partner to know about. Which will get in the way of your relationship and bad for you if you keep it up?

Life is not a movie: There are no things as everything is going to end happily for everyone no matter whatever you do. There are no things as if we were meant to be destiny will make us meet again. There is no music hearing when you are in love. If you don’t work on your relationship and things everything will be good on end, or break up with good guys that maybe your detailed ones saying if we were meant to be we will meet again. You will probably be going to be single for a lifetime and even if you get married you will be with someone that may not be as good for you as the guy you were with was.

We’re all selfish: There’s no denying the fact that every person thinks for himself too. Even when in love ones they will try to be a little selfish, which does not mean a bad thing. Selfishness can be a good thing, they want you for them is a good thing, it can make you know they love you so much. But just a little selfishness in a way of possessiveness is okay.

Relationship is more than love: Sorry to all the best friends of the couples. As soon as they get in a serious relationship they are each other’s best friends. The thing to make a relationship work is that you need trust, care, honesty, loyalty, friendship and more. For it to work.…

When we are talking about a relationship we need to keep up with some things that will strengthen our relationship and make it last longer. There’s always something with many relationships that people always end up getting breaking without a valid reason. They don’t try hard enough to keep their relationship up. So if you want to make sure your relationship stays longer and goes great, make sure about what I will tell you today. As its most important ones that end relationships, These are the ones that every great long-lasting relationship people have on their relationship.

Compromise

When you are in a relationship there will be times when you need to set your foot down for your partner. You need to know that relationship always works on take and give. You want Love and care from your partner you need to give love and care to your partner. The things about relationships are simply that they always need mutual efforts from both sides. You can not expect a relationship to last longer of only the one person giving his all and other people just sitting and not doing anything. So when you are in a relationship make sure you compromise for each other. If something they don’t like and you can leave that for them then do. Small things make the biggest effect on others. If they don’t like to watch a match and you want to watch a match, and they get upset just let them watch what they want. It will only make your relationship better, it shows that you care about them and respect their choices.

Communicate

Probably the most important factor in your relationship can be the communication. Relationships with communication always argues and fights later end up being breaking up with each other. When you are in a relationship you need to understand your partners. You should know their likes, dislikes, favorite food, what they hate. Everything about them your past, tour family background your friend circle. Everything about them should be known to you and they should know everything about you. Or else later it will cause fights arguments and bad experience leaving each other hurt. If something about them you don’t like then tell them to talk with them. It’s better to talk than to fight because of it if you don’t tell about your past. Remember if later suddenly something came up and they know from someone else they will get hurt. Then it will turn into a fight as you hiding things from them and that will create doubt. They will always doubt you after that because you hide things from them. So make sure this does not happen if you want to have a long-lasting relationship.

Choose your fights carefully

There is no denying that every relationship will have fights and arguments often. But when that happens you need to make sure you know what you are arguing for. Don’t go fighting for things that don’t even matter to anyone. People often fight and argue over small things that’s not worth fighting over. There’s no need to fight over TV, food, light, and things like that. If you think it’s okay for you to fight cuz your partner didn’t like your food or the food your partner made was bad. Then you guys never going to make it, if you think it’s okay to fight on we should watch TV together and we should not watch this or that. Then it’s never going to work, sorry to say, be mature get your mid-right and choose what you should be fighting and arguing about.

Don’t hide your needs

If you are in a relationship there is for sure that you have needs from your partner. That can be sexual needs, mental needs or emotional, make sure what you need you talk about it. Don’t get mad if they can’t provide that, on the spot. Let them know and then take action on that, so when being in a relationship you talk about your needs and let them know what you want and what you need.

Trust and honesty

One of the most important factors in the relationship is that you need to have trust in your partner. Never go breaking up with them because someone else said something wrong about them. That will just make your relationship bad and your mind filled with doubts. So make sure you trust them and when it comes to loyalty make sure to maintain that too. Honesty is the most important thing to never lie to your partner, that can get you and your partner hurt very bad. Make sure you don’t do that with your partner always be honest so later when that thong comes up they won’t get hurt. Always remember that once honesty is gone trust is gone and they always doubt you thinking that you are a liar.…