When we start loving someone and fall in love there are things that we experience that we have never before. For all of us, that think love is all great and happy feeling and that is nothing bad about Love and it’s all good when you are in love. Let me tell you something, and that is what you are imagining. Love is not always sunshine and roses. It’s a great experience but comes with hard times if you think that your love life will be always happy nope that can’t be. So let me tell you basics 10 hard truth about love that you know after you come in relationships.
Romance will fade away: When we talk about love there’s this sweet feeling, getting butterflies in your stomach kissing and holding each other all the time. Always feeling happy and excited talking about a lot of things together and making each other feel special by just talking and being there. Well let me tell you it’s nothing but a big lie after a while it will all go and if you are not ready to accept that reality, you will end up breaking up with a person who maybe was the destined one for you.
Every relationship is different: Make sure you don’t compare your relationship with any other couples. They won’t have what you have and you won’t have what they have. It’s basic things you can’t get everything and if you start comparing you will always find faults in your relationship and will totally ignore the good things about yours. Focus on your relationship and be happy in that enjoy the things you can do.
There will be days when we regret being in relationships: When you are in a relationship you will be good and enjoying every moment and be happy like nothing is wrong with you. But suddenly after a period of time, you will start having arguments and fights. This will happen so often sometimes you will feel you shouldn’t have come in a relationship.
We think about our partner’s weakness more often: After a while when you are in a relationship you started to think about the weakness of your partner. The bad habits they have and they do. This can cause a doubt in your mind that you have to deal with. Just keep in mind even superman has his weakness no one comes without S weakness and no one is perfect.
We often blame relationships for our mistakes: We always after a period of time blames our partner whenever we fight. We say it’s because you are like this, it’s because you don’t do this you don’t give me time and etc. Which we use for trying to comfort ourselves that it’s their fault. It is not true better to just accept your mistake and make sure what you need to do to make it better.
We hide our weaknesses and flaws things from our partner: When we in a relationship that we start to have these thoughts. What will happen if my partner knows about my flaws will he leave me? Or will he use them later for hurting me and there are many thoughts? But if you and your partner really love each other they will just make your relationship better by sharing each other’s flaws.
Ignoring things is not always a good option: Most of the time people in relationships try to ignore things and make sure they don’t get fight and they run from the truth. They hide and ignore some topics that they don’t want their partner to know about. Which will get in the way of your relationship and bad for you if you keep it up?
Life is not a movie: There are no things as everything is going to end happily for everyone no matter whatever you do. There are no things as if we were meant to be destiny will make us meet again. There is no music hearing when you are in love. If you don’t work on your relationship and things everything will be good on end, or break up with good guys that maybe your detailed ones saying if we were meant to be we will meet again. You will probably be going to be single for a lifetime and even if you get married you will be with someone that may not be as good for you as the guy you were with was.
We’re all selfish: There’s no denying the fact that every person thinks for himself too. Even when in love ones they will try to be a little selfish, which does not mean a bad thing. Selfishness can be a good thing, they want you for them is a good thing, it can make you know they love you so much. But just a little selfishness in a way of possessiveness is okay.
Relationship is more than love: Sorry to all the best friends of the couples. As soon as they get in a serious relationship they are each other’s best friends. The thing to make a relationship work is that you need trust, care, honesty, loyalty, friendship and more. For it to work.